Approach everything from this place of ultimate freedom. The choice always remains with you. You can always choose to walk away.
Even when I was in the army, I had this final freedom. I could just choose not to go to base the next day and lie down on a bench somewhere.
Would there be consequences? Sure. Perhaps I would spend a few weeks in jail. But the choice was still mine. I never "had" to go.
If you wanted, you too could walk away from everything right now and lie down on a bench. There might be some consequences. But there is nothing that you have to do. Nothing!
This is the source of ultimate freedom. To know that you choose your own actions and consequences.
Anything you do, you’ve chosen to do. At any point, you can choose not to.